I am happy that you are reflecting on what our service can/can't provide @BlueBay - this is important to help you get the most out of the service and helps you set healthy boundaries.
In terms of whether you are posting 'too much'? No. There is no quota on how many posts you can post. It is about maintaining a healthy balance between your online and offline supports.
As you mentioned, you are aware that we refer you to crisis lines when things get very tough. This is not to prevent you from seeking support on the forums, but to guide you to access a service/s that you deserve in times of crisis e.g. Lifeline, BeyondBlue. Also, our forums are largely community run which means we want the forums to be a place where people feel safe to 'hang out'. Distressing/distressed posts may be triggering to some readers.
For some members, in times of major crises, they may send an email to us requesting that a pause be placed on their account so that they can seek crisis services. Other members limit themselves with what they post during difficult times. This is your call.
We are more than happy to work with you to determine some healthy boundaries when using the forums - if you so wish.
But definitely, we embrace you as a community member and care very much about what is happening for you. You are a valued member 🙂
Speak soon, tyme
