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15 Jun 2025 07:27 PM
15 Jun 2025 07:27 PM
Whatever happens was meant to be. It doesn't take away the comfort you felt when you were being supported by your special person. If you didn't have her to hold onto, you wouldn't be here today.
I'm so glad to hear you are dating someone. You deserve to be happy.
Whatever happens, there is a reason for it. I'm still here cheering you on.
I"m so proud of you in that you have come so so far. @Rockdog
21 Jun 2025 12:28 AM
21 Jun 2025 12:28 AM
Hi @tyme ,
thank you. It is just that I can’t let my special person go, and still think about her all the time. In fact she has been in my dreams twice over the last few days.Can I still hold out hope? Or maybe I should let it go. I guess if it is meant to be it will come together.somehow, and if not it won’t
22 Jun 2025 08:24 PM
22 Jun 2025 08:24 PM
You can always hold onto hope @Rockdog . Hope keeps us alive and going. It's not 'wrong' to think of her. Be kind to yourself mate. Be open to what life throws at you and know that things have happened for a reason
I believe in you.
01 Jul 2025 06:12 PM
01 Jul 2025 06:12 PM
Hi @tyme ,
I hope you are going well. Haven’t chatted for a little while. Hope Ruby is being good. 😊
01 Jul 2025 06:14 PM
01 Jul 2025 06:36 PM
01 Jul 2025 06:36 PM
Hi @Oaktree,
I am going on thanks. It is a bit of a roller coaster but better. How are you going?
01 Jul 2025 06:45 PM
01 Jul 2025 06:45 PM
I have been on a roller coaster too but my psychiatrist said that can happen with the medication that the GP put me on when I had bronchitis. I am ok now. I have 3 weeks break from Tafe.
02 Jul 2025 06:28 PM
02 Jul 2025 06:28 PM
Hey @Rockdog , how are you?
Sorry to hear things are a bit of a roller coaster. With thoughts? With your current situation?
As I'm typing, Ruby is sitting with me, giving me lots of kisses.
04 Jul 2025 09:40 AM
04 Jul 2025 09:40 AM
Hi @tyme,
Aww beautiful Ruby. Hope you are well.
I am having some trouble with both thoughts and my situation. Things are feeling a bit strange. I’m really not sure what is happening with my life. I don’t know why things just couldn’t have worked out the way I felt they were meant to. It may just be a long road to get there, but I feel I am lost in the forrest and may not get back.
04 Jul 2025 09:00 PM
04 Jul 2025 09:00 PM
Hey mate @Rockdog ,
When you look at the things so intensely, you won't see the forest for the trees. Look at the bigger picture. Consider where you have been and where you are now. Look at your growth. Look at how you have grown as a person.
I continue to hold onto the fact that what is for you is for you.
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