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16 Feb 2025 07:04 PM
16 Feb 2025 07:04 PM
Hey @tyme,
thank you for saying that, that means a lot to me. I am not to the stage of not eating or anything, although I guess I was in a pretty bad way for a while. I am getting on with my wellbeing now but yes a void sums it up well. Let’s hope one day. Hope you are going well. 😊
16 Feb 2025 07:19 PM
20 Feb 2025 10:27 PM
20 Feb 2025 10:27 PM
Hi @tyme,
hope you are going well. I hope Ruby is being good-ish. So do you think she would think about me sometimes? I am sure we did have something.
21 Feb 2025 07:05 PM
21 Feb 2025 07:05 PM
Memories cannot be forgotten. @Rockdog Those many hours were not in vain.
Are you able to erase your memories?
Ruby is okay. Still teaching her to be 'normal' I guess lol
22 Feb 2025 10:59 AM
22 Feb 2025 10:59 AM
Thank you @tyme,
So not in vain does mean there is still hope. 😊 I guess I just worry that I am putting more on them than she is. You are right though, it was so much time. That wasn’t a nothing thing on her part.
I’m sure Ruby is normal, well Cavoodle normal lol. They are a special breed. But that makes them so loveable. 🥰I hope you are going ok with everything. Have you settled in back home?
23 Feb 2025 04:41 PM
23 Feb 2025 04:41 PM
Okay okay.. I met another cavoodle today, and that cavoodle is so hyper that the groomer said she needed to be sedated so she could be groomed... this gives me hope that maybe Ruby is normal, seeing I give her minor grooms here and there... @Rockdog
Yes, not in vain means those hours were not a waste 🙂
Hope you are well!
23 Feb 2025 07:30 PM
23 Feb 2025 07:30 PM
Hey @tyme,
I am going ok thanks. Yes Paris is meant to be an anti anxiety dog for my daughter but suffers anxiety and takes medication. They are so beautiful and kind, but if their doggy world doesn’t run exactly as planned they get very stressed. She is such a beautiful dog though.Im sure Ruby is well and truly normal in Cavoodle world.
Thanks for helping me stay positive. I wasn’t imagining it all in my head then? Sometimes I feel like it wasn’t real, but other times think it was. 😊
23 Feb 2025 07:38 PM
23 Feb 2025 07:38 PM
Lol... Paris the anti-anxiety dogs who is anxious and takes anti-anxiety meds lol. Oh well, gotta love em 🙂
Ruby's actually chill in many ways. She doesn't fuss with loud noises, thunder, fireworks. She doesn't even care which is good.
100+ hours with someone doesn't sound like a co-incidence to me. Does it sound like a co-incidence to you? @Rockdog
23 Feb 2025 09:00 PM
23 Feb 2025 09:00 PM
Yeah Paris is sort of chilled but licks a lot and makes herself sore. It is probably more a skin allergy but gets abit funny with people and other dogs. When we go for a walk she stops and wants to meet the other dogs. Then when they get close she freaks out. She is a funny little thing. And her looks are priceless. When she first gets into my place, if u haven’t got her bowls out yet, she looks at where they should be, then looks at me like, come on get organised. She is pretty funny.
I didn’t think it was a co-incidence until it fell apart. Now I may never see her again. Although we think we will don’t we? 😊
01 Mar 2025 09:39 PM
01 Mar 2025 09:39 PM
Hi @tyme ,
hope you are going well. I have been mostly ok, but no destiny happening.
Hope Ruby is behaving. Lol
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